Support Peers By Checking in Post Leave
Post-leave check-ins are important. They are a means to reconnect and check on one another’s well-being.
Sometimes, they are a means to provide immediate support and referrals for care when something has happened during leave.
Attitude and actions during check-ins matter. Being authentic, actively listening, and taking appropriate action may mean the difference between a fellow Marine recovering from a traumatic event such as sexual, physical, or emotional abuse or suffering in silence.
Check-in tips:
- Check-in with peers or subordinates about their leave. Ask follow-up questions to create connection and trust.
- Share information about your own leave and any upcoming post-leave plans.
- Promote cohesion and connectedness. Organize and lead group PT sessions upon return to refocus Marines on the mission and each other; check with Semper Fit to see what group/team-building opportunities might be available; invite the chaplain to lead an event or to participate with the group.
- If sexual assault comes up in the conversation, be compassionate and believe. Remind them of the available resources and take appropriate steps to ensure their safety and well-being while making every effort to protect their privacy. Learn more about Relationship Red Flags by visiting: Tough Conversations: Relationship Red Flags.
Creating these connections with your fellow Marines fosters relationships that contribute to a positive and healthy command climate. Creating cohesion and connection throughout the unit reduces the likelihood of harmful behaviors, including sexual assault.
Sexual assault prevention and resources are available at www.usmc-mccs.com/sapr.